Emotional Buffering & Stress Capacity
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The Quiet Sense of Being Supported
Support appears quietly, not as reassurance, but as fact.
The surface beneath holds without effort or response.
This moment does not analyze safety or stability.
It allows the sense of being held to exist without interpretation, letting support be felt rather than proven.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I find a sense of "support" when everything feels heavy?
This is the Quiet Sense of Being Supported. It is a shift from "I am holding myself up" to "the chair/floor is holding me." In this model, we move from Active Bracing to Passive Support. Introducing this felt sense allows the Threat system to stand down. When you realize you are being "pushed up" by the earth, you can stop the "upward effort" of your muscles, leading to an immediate metabolic saving.
Why is it hard to trust the support?
Because your system is used to "Self-Reliance as Survival." Trusting the chair feels like "dropping your guard." In the Meaning Density Model™, we practice "Micro-Trust." For ten seconds, let the chair take 10% more of your weight. By proving that the support holds even when you "lean in," you build the structural evidence needed to move from a state of "constant bracing" to a state of "supported ease."