
Fear of Silence & Stillness Discomfort
Learn why silence feels threatening in an overstimulated world and how your nervous system relearns calm.
There is
a still point
between
stimuli.
One wave
passes.
The next
has not
arrived.
This gap
matters.
It allows
the system
to reset
without being
pushed forward.
Let the pause
remain
unfilled.
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The "still point" is the gap of silence between two events or inputs. In our hyper-connected world, these gaps are often eliminated, leading to a "blur" of experience. Recognizing and honoring these interstimulus spaces is essential for restoring your nervous system's natural pacing. These gaps provide the "buffer" needed for the Reward system to reset and for the Narrative system to integrate what just happened before the next thing begins.
When you rush from one stimulus to the next, your internal "velocity" stays high, leading to fragmentation. By pausing in the "still point," you allow your heart rate and breath to return to baseline. This intentional slowing of pace ensures that you are moving through your day with "contiguous attention" rather than in a series of disjointed jumps. It turns a frantic day into a coherent, manageable sequence of completed loops.