Avoiding Discomfort in Modern Life
Discover why modern humans avoid discomfort and how it weakens resilience.
When Attention Slips Sideways
Attention slips
sideways,
not away.
It curves
instead of
stopping.
This is how
the mind
protects itself
without declaring
avoidance.
Let the bend
exist.
You are still
on the path,
just at
a gentler angle.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I start a task but then my mind drifts to something totally unrelated. Is my focus broken?
No, your "Attention is Slipping Sideways." Subtle avoidance often hides in these sideways shifts. In the Meaning Density Model™, this is a common human response to "High-Density" requirements. Your Integrator is looking for a "Lower-Density" path to follow. Recognizing that "sideways focus" is a natural regulatory attempt helps you stay "Regulated" even when you aren't "Productive."
Is "sideways focus" the same as being distracted?
It's more specific. Distraction is being pulled by an external signal; sideways focus is an internal slide away from pressure. DojoWell teaches that by noticing the "Slide," you can catch it earlier. Don't fight the drift; just notice it. "Ah, my attention is moving sideways." This awareness alone often provides enough "Structural Stability" to help the mind return to the center without a struggle.