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When the Moment Holds You
The moment holds without being asked.
Effort steps back as support remains.
Nothing needs to be maintained or sustained.
This window allows being held to replace holding, completing this entry phase without instruction or demand.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I stop "trying so hard" to be okay?
This is Allowing the Moment to Hold You. You reverse the effort. Instead of "you" holding "the moment," you let "the moment" (the chair, the floor, the air) hold "you." This is the ultimate "Power-Shift" in the Meaning Density Model™. You move from Proactive Control to Receptive Trust. By allowing the support to lead, your system finally feels it can "let go" of the primary brace, leading to a profound and total structural settlement.
What does "allowing support to lead" feel like?
It feels like "Somatic Relief." It’s the "exhale" of the whole system. When you stop "carrying" yourself and let the environment take the load, your Threat, Status, and Reward systems all reach a "synchronized done." You are finally "off-duty." This is the goal of the Recovered Meaning Era: a state where you are fully present and active, but you are "carried" by the stability of your own integrated architecture and the support of the world around you.