Shutdown Mode & Freeze Response
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Living With Too Many “Just in Case” Moments
Life fills
with “just in case” moments.
Preparations made
for events
that never arrive.
This anticipatory stance
keeps the system alert,
even during safety.
Naming it
matters.
You are not pessimistic—
you are prepared
beyond necessity.
Recognizing anticipatory threat
helps the system release
some readiness
without losing competence.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I find myself checking things three times "just in case." Why is this so exhausting?
"Just in case" living is a form of "Anticipatory Load." Every "just in case" thought is a "Background Loop" that your Status & Control system has to keep running. In the Meaning Density Model™, these micro-preparations accumulate quietly until they consume all your "Internal Margin." You aren't just doing the task; you are carrying the weight of a hundred "potential" failures. This constant bracing is what leads to deep, structural exhaustion.
How do I stop the "just in case" loops from taking over?
Practice "Satisficing for Safety." Define what "enough" looks like before you start. "I will check the stove once, and that is the landing point." By setting a definitive "Edge" to your monitoring, you prevent the loop from becoming infinite. In DojoWell, we teach that "Perfect Certainty" is a trap. Choosing to trust a "Safe Enough" result restores your capacity and stops the quiet accumulation of anticipatory weight.