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The Detour That Keeps Things Manageable
There is a detour
that keeps
things manageable.
It may take
longer,
but it carries
less strain.
Detours are not
mistakes;
they are
adaptations.
Let the scenic route
count as
progress.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I’m taking a very indirect route to solve a problem. Am I wasting time?
You are taking "The Detour That Keeps Things Manageable." Sometimes the "Direct Path" has too much Threat Density—it’s too blunt or too high-stakes. In the Meaning Density Model™, a detour is a way to "Sneak Up" on a problem from a "Lower-Pressure Angle." Detours preserve your Structural Capacity. You aren't "wasting time"; you are "Investing in Sustainability" by choosing a route your system can actually handle.
How do I know if a detour is "supportive" or just "distraction"?
A supportive detour still has the "Target" in mind, even if it’s moving sideways. Distraction is moving away from the target entirely. DojoWell suggests naming the detour: "I am taking the scenic route to this goal because it’s safer for my nervous system." This maintains your Status & Control. As long as the detour eventually "Lands" you closer to your objective, it is a high-intelligence move for a saturated system.