Meaning Anchors: Staying Grounded Daily
Learn small meaning-anchors that stabilize your emotional life.
The Gentle Absence of Pull
There is a gentle absence of pull.
Nothing calls for attention.
No direction competes.
This non-pull allows the system to remain where it is.
Let the cord stay slack.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does it mean for the "pull" of the world to disappear?
The "pull" is the internal tension created by the Reward & Pursuit system reacting to external triggers. When this pull is absent, you experience "Non-Demand." It feels like a lightness in the chest and a softening of the jaw. In this state, your body is no longer "leaning into the future." You are simply here. This absence of pull is the structural requirement for true, unconditioned rest.
How can I tell if the "pull" has actually stopped?
You can tell by your "checking" behaviors. If you can walk past your phone or an unfinished task without a "hitch" in your breath or a mental "tug," the pull has eased. In the body, this feels like your weight is fully supported by the ground rather than being held up by your own tension. It is a state of deep biological trust where the environment is no longer seen as a series of demands.