Domain: Overstimulation & Dopamine Saturation 3-5 min read Updated: 2026-01-15

The Pull That Comes Back Again

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The pull

comes back

again,

like water

to shore.

It does

not mean

you did

anything

wrong.

The system

repeats

what it

knows.

Let the tide

be seen.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why does the same craving keep coming back even when I know it’s not good for me?

Craving is a repetitive signal from the Reward system. It’s an automated "pursuit loop" that has been reinforced through repetition. The fact that it comes back is understandable—your brain is simply following a well-worn path it thinks will lead to safety or pleasure. In DojoWell terms, this is a "legacy loop." Recognizing its repetitive nature allows you to treat it as a "structural habit" rather than an urgent command that must be followed.

How can I manage a pull that keeps returning again and again?

You manage it by "de-coupling" the impulse from the action. When the pull returns, name it: "This is the repetition of a pursuit loop." By naming it, you move the experience into your Narrative & Identity system, where you have more control. You don't have to make the craving go away; you just have to observe its arrival and departure. Over time, as you stop feeding the loop, its structural strength will naturally begin to diminish.

The Pull That Comes Back Again