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The Sense of Being Held in Place
You may notice a sense of being held in place.
Not trapped,
not restrained —
contained.
Like something resting securely in a bowl,
there is no slipping
and no pressure to move.
This holding does not require vigilance.
It exists quietly,
allowing presence without tension or drift.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why do I feel like I'm "held in place" even when I'm not moving?
This is the Sense of Being Held. You have established Containment Without Effort. Your Identity system is no longer "leaking" energy into the future or the past. In this framework, "being held" is the result of your "front" and "back" being in alignment. You aren't "holding yourself up"; the "architecture of your presence" is doing the work for you. This is the ultimate "metabolic savings" state.
How do I find this "held" feeling in a crisis?
You don't "find" it; you "Return" to it. It is the "Stable Base" you built during your integration cycles. In the Meaning Density Model™, the sense of being held is a "permanent gain." Even in a storm, your "internal containment" remains. By remembering that your structure is "already held" by its own integration, you can face external chaos without internal fragmentation.