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When Relief Turns Brief
Relief appears,
then shortens.
What felt easing
a moment ago
begins to thin.
This briefness
is not your fault.
It is how
stimulation behaves.
Notice the fade
without reaching
for another spark.
Allow the system
to pass through
the quiet
that follows.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why does the relief I feel after finishing a task fade so quickly?
Relief has a "decay rate." Once the Threat or Pursuit loop closes, the neurochemical signal that provided the relief naturally dissolves to prepare you for the next environment. If you expect relief to be permanent, you will find yourself constantly chasing the next "spike" to stay ahead of the decay. Recognizing this decay helps you stop the chase and accept the return to baseline neutrality.
How do I stop myself from chasing a new spike when relief fades?
Awareness of the "decay cycle" is key. When you notice the relief fading, acknowledge it as a predictable structural event. Instead of immediately opening a new loop to get that feeling back, practice "staying with the fading." This builds your tolerance for interstimulus space, allowing your nervous system to fully land and integrate the previous achievement before moving to a new pursuit.