Emotional Numbing Patterns & Escape
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The Feeling of Being Slightly Elsewhere
There is a sense of being slightly elsewhere,
even while everything looks the same.
As if part of you
stayed behind the moment.
This is not disappearance.
It is spacing.
The mind creates distance
when immediacy overwhelms.
You are still anchored,
even if awareness feels offset.
Naming this experience softly
reduces its grip.
You do not need to pull yourself back.
Staying aware is enough.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does it mean if I feel "slightly elsewhere" even when talking to people?
This mild dissociation is a structural "pressure relief valve." Your Narrative & Identity system is essentially splitting your attention to avoid becoming fully saturated by the current environment. You are "elsewhere" because your brain is trying to find a quieter space to process information. DojoWell encourages acknowledging this state gently. When you stop fearing the "elsewhere" and recognize it as a safety mechanism, the fear-loop breaks, which ironically makes it easier for you to eventually drift back into full presence.
How do I stop feeling afraid of this "spacing out" feeling?
Fear comes from the Narrative system thinking something is "wrong" with your brain. Reframe it: your brain is simply using its "background processing" mode. In the Meaning Density Model™, spacing out is a signal that your "meaning integrator" is full. Instead of fighting it, acknowledge it: "I am currently slightly elsewhere because my system needs space." This naming restores your agency and lowers the threat response, allowing the "elsewhere" feeling to pass more quickly because it is no longer being fueled by panic.