Stress Conditioning & Learned Reactivity
Discover how your nervous system becomes conditioned to stress—and how to reverse it.
When Pressure Becomes the Background
Pressure becomes the background
when it never leaves.
It stops announcing itself.
It simply hums
beneath everything you do.
This does not mean
it is light.
It means you adapted.
The system learned
to function with weight
as atmosphere.
Naming this matters.
What feels normal
can still be heavy.
Recognition
brings the pressure
back into view,
where it can finally
be acknowledged
instead of silently endured.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I don't feel "stressed," but I'm constantly exhausted. How can both be true?
You have likely reached the state where "pressure becomes the background." In the Meaning Density Model™, when a load is constant, the Threat & Safety system stops sending acute alarm signals and instead "normalizes" the high-tension state. You don't feel stressed because your baseline has shifted to a permanent state of bracing. The exhaustion is the metabolic cost of maintaining that high-pressure background without ever returning to a true rest state.
How do I notice a load that has become "invisible" to me?
Look for the "absence of lightness." Even if you don't feel "bad," do you ever feel truly "weightless" or spontaneous? If the answer is no, the pressure is there, hiding in the background. DojoWell suggests performing a "contrast check": step into a zero-demand environment for ten minutes. The sudden "drop" or the immediate urge to find a new task will reveal just how much background pressure you were actually carrying.