Self-Optimization as Existential Avoidance
Understand why optimizing everything hides deeper fear.
When Strength Turns Into Compression
Strength kept everything moving,
but over time
it tightened the space
inside you.
Muscles learned
to stay engaged.
Attention stayed narrowed.
What once felt capable
slowly became compressed.
This is not misuse of strength.
It is strength
used continuously.
Recognizing this
reframes the story.
You did not fail to rest.
Strength was asked
to do too much
for too long,
and it adapted
the only way it could.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve always been strong, so why do I suddenly feel so "tight" and restricted?
In the Meaning Density Model™, "strength" is the ability to hold a load, but "compression" is what happens when that load is sustained for too long without a landing. Your strength hasn't failed; it has simply reshaped your inner space. Like a spring that has been held down for years, your nervous system has lost its "travel." You feel tight because your Threat & Safety system has narrowed your margins to protect your core from the constant weight.
How do I turn my "compression" back into "strength"?
You don't do it through more effort. You do it by creating "expansion zones." Strength needs "slack" to be functional. DojoWell suggests identifying one area of your life where you can intentionally "lower the tension"—by lowering a standard or extending a deadline. This introduces a tiny bit of "play" back into your architecture. As the compression eases, your strength becomes a flexible tool again rather than a rigid cage.