Domain: Avoidance & Delay Loops 3-5 min read Updated: 2026-01-15

The Inside That Doesn’t Agree Yet

Inside,

something

doesn’t agree

yet.

No argument

forms—

just difference.

Parts

hold separate

timing.

Let overlap

exist

without resolution.

Agreement

isn’t required

for presence.

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Frequently Asked Questions

One part of me wants to work, but the other part wants to sleep. Why am I so conflicted?

"The Inside Doesn’t Agree Yet." Internal disagreement is normal and "Architecturally Sound." In the Meaning Density Model™, different behavioral systems have different "Needs" at different times. Your Reward system wants the "Win," while your Safety system wants "Rest." This isn't "Conflict"; it’s "Diversity of Signal." Your Integrator’s job is to listen to both without choosing a "Side" immediately.

How do I resolve an "Internal Disagreement" without feeling stuck?

Use "Negotiated Sequencing." Say: "I hear the need for rest and the need for a win. We will do 20 minutes of work, and then 20 minutes of rest." This provides a "Landing" for both signals. DojoWell teaches that "Integration is a Conversation." By giving both parts a "Voice" and a "Time Slot," you reduce the "Internal Friction" and allow your system to move forward as a "Coherent Whole."