The Inner Critic Spiral
Learn how the inner critic forms and how to soften it.
The Commentary That Never Rests
The commentary that never rests fills the background quietly.
It narrates, assesses, and scores, rarely pausing.
Even neutral moments receive analysis.
This voice believes constant review prevents future error.
Recognizing its persistence is enough for now.
It does not need to be stopped to be seen.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is it normal to have a constant stream of inner evaluation about everything I do?
Yes, this is "The Commentary That Never Rests." It is the Status & Control system attempting to maintain order through constant labeling. Naming this commentary without trying to "intervene" or "fix" it is a key move in the model. By allowing the noise to exist without giving it your "attentional weight," you reduce the pressure on your nervous system. You are the space where the commentary happens, not the commentary itself.
What happens if I just let the commentary run without listening?
This is called "Attentional Decoupling." When you stop "intervening" in your thoughts, the energy required for self-management is returned to your body. The commentary may continue in the background, but its "meaning density" drops. Like background noise in a café, it stops being a distraction and begins to fade into the environment, allowing your Identity system to rest in a state of quiet, unobserved presence.