Rest vs. Recovery for Nervous System Health
Understand why rest isn’t enough and recovery practices matter more.
When Movement Becomes Optional
Movement becomes
optional.
You could go,
or you could stay.
Neither choice
is forced.
This freedom
marks settling.
Restoring choice
matters more
than choosing.
Let the paths exist
without deciding.
Safety increases
when action
is no longer
the only option.
Restore choice gently with DojoWell.
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Frequently Asked Questions
I felt like I could go for a walk, but I also felt like I could stay on the couch. Why does that feel so good?
"Movement has Become Optional." Choice has returned. In the Meaning Density Model™, "Activation" makes movement feel "Compulsory"—you must act. When activation lowers, you move from "Reflex" to "Option." This is a sign of "Restored Autonomy." Your Identity is back in the driver's seat, deciding which loops to open and which to close. Optional movement is a definitive "Safety Signal."
Why is "Choice" such a big part of regulation?
Because "Lack of Choice" is a primary Threat Trigger. When you feel you must do something, your Safety system stays braced. When you realize you could do it or not do it, the "Action Pressure" evaporates. DojoWell suggests celebrating these "Optional Moments." By acknowledging your "Power to Choose," you strengthen your Status & Control system in a healthy way, which further stabilizes your overall regulation.